A snapshot of the onset: the Solliday Story 2002 through 2009
Doctor, my hair is falling out in clumps and I have open sores on my hands and feet.
You think I have lupus? Are you sure? No … nobody in my family has lupus. Isn’t that a disease that is inherited? I think I just have food allergies.
Why do I feel so tired and it feels like I have bricks attached to my feet? Now you think I have fibromyalgia? But when I eliminate wheat and gluten, my muscles don’t hurt and ...Continue Reading →
Marking a milestone: looking back on my lupus diagnosis
If you have ever been sick, please read. If you haven’t, count your blessings and please keep reading.
The day is March 10 and this day six years ago marks the first day down a hellish six-month path to lupus. I had nighttime fevers for two nights until I walked into urgent care. This was the beginning of a whirlwind crisis; I was advised to rush to the ER.
It was thought I had an infection of some sort, but nothing was showing ...Continue Reading →
Disruptions to best laid plans and intentions
When I took to the role of Ambassador, I was excited to help promote all the events and learning experiences the Lupus Foundation of Minnesota (LFM) has to offer. I have participated in many events and have always come away with new knowledge and, most importantly, a great sense of fulfillment from spending time with fellow individuals living with lupus. I was happy to represent the Foundation and looked forward to further connecting with others living with this disease.
As many ...Continue Reading →
Fighting lupus with my support team by my side
“You’re going to need someone around to help when you are old and stuck in your hydraulic bed” was one of the first things my soon-to-be husband said to me before we were dating and he was trying to get close to me. At first, I thought it was really funny and quite cute, but then I realized this could be a real thing in my life, and the fact that he wanted to be there to help me really ...Continue Reading →
Introducing 2015 Lupus Co-Ambassador Larry Norgren
My name is Larry Norgren and I am honored to be one of this year’s Lupus Ambassadors for the Lupus Foundation of Minnesota (meet my fellow 2015 Lupus co-Ambassador Ashley Albertson here).
I was born in and went to school in Two Harbors and got married and raised my family there. I have two grown children, a son and a daughter, as well as one adult grandson. After graduating from high school, I started working at the Reserve Mining Company in Silver Bay. After 20 years there, the plant closed down and I had the opportunity to go to school at Hibbing Community College. After graduating with a degree in Radiological Technology,…
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Introducing 2015 Lupus Co-Ambassador Ashley Albertson
My name is Ashley Albertson and I am one of this year’s Lupus Ambassadors for the Lupus Foundation of Minnesota (meet my fellow 2015 Lupus co-Ambassador Larry Norgren here).
I was diagnosed with lupus in 2009 after delivering two stillborns (at 18 weeks and 28 weeks gestation) and two years of intensive testing. I currently live in the St. Paul area with my fiancé Justin and two stepdaughters, Megan (9) and Anna (7). Working at BOB-FM 106.1, I thought my unique position as an on-air personality could really help spread the word and bring awareness to lupus.…
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How could I be so lucky to have such wonderful family support?! My family has given of themselves in so many ways, helping me with physical and personal needs. They do little things that they don’t think are much at all, but they are everything to me.
When I was so sick 25 years ago, my husband knew how much I needed to hold my girls. He picked each one up and put them in my hospital bed with me, despite ...Continue Reading →
The power of faith and prayer
I was very humbled to find out so many of our friends and family started prayer chains for me. Coast to coast, there were prayers for my health and my family.
I ran into a former coworker. We exchanged stories trying to get caught up. In the few minutes we were able to talk, I told her about my lupus and she told me for two years she had been praying for a lady with lupus. She did not know the ...Continue Reading →
Worrying. . .
You worry about your children from the minute they are born. But when you know they could also have lupus, you worry even more. Then you add grandchildren to the mix and the worry becomes enormous.
All the worrying in the world won’t change anything. So, we have tried, as a family, to be as educated as we can be about lupus. Watch for the tell-tale signs and behaviors of lupus, with the hopes of cutting it off at the pass, ...Continue Reading →
Lupus affects the whole family
Our young family was hit hard and fast 25 years ago when I was first attacked by lupus. My family was forced to deal with the harsh reality of me being in ICU for a month and needing months of care afterwards. The daily care of my young family fell on others, while Dave spent night and day with me. We were blessed to have my parents close at hand. They stepped in to provide the care for the ...Continue Reading →