Most North Dakota and Minnesota people are very friendly. We pass by each other and usually greet each other with “Hi, how are you?”
I had just left our support group, where we were talking about whether or not people really want to know how you’re feeling. Do they really listen to our answer? Even when you say, “Not so great,” they reply, “Oh, but you look so good!” At times, I wish a giant horn would grow out of my forehead to let them know that I really don’t feel good.
Leaving our support group that day, thinking about this, I decided to do a little experiment of my own. I happened to run into a classmate I hadn’t seen for quite a while. I greeted her with “Hi, how are you?”
She said, “Great!” before asking me how I was doing.
I answered, “Not worth a darn.”
Much to my surprise, she said, ...Continue Reading →